one way

One of the hardest concepts to master in marriage, the two becoming one. So often marriages stumble over this particular bump in the road. Through out life we are taught to be independent.

• as a baby were taught to hold our bottle.
• as a toddler to walk
• then to tie our own shoes

And the list goes on. Very rarely will you find a class that teaches two people how to become one. No wonder we fight to hold to our independence. As technology evolves, so has the thought become more prevalent many of us desire things to be about solely about us. It has rapidly become me and my, no wonder there is a influx of iPhone's steadily being purchased. It is evident we need to learn how to share.  We is a word that takes some effort to use when conversing in and about our marriage. We are more prone to say things like:

• my children
• my job
• my money
• my house
• my car
• my, my, my, my, my

When in truth as the two come together my  should no longer exist. Everything changes instantly. For me this has been a lesson I have to continually practice. I have learned the only way we can walk together is if we agree. It is difficult to agree if were both pulling in different directions.

DeWanna

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