As tempting as it may be to get your point across. Stop! Don't do it.

1. 1.Take a deep breathe
   
2. 2. calm down 
   
3. 3. walk away
   
4. 4. keep your thoughts to yourself
   
5. 5.ease into your secret closet
   

It is written in all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path. Satan would love nothing more than to get us women to use our tongues as a whip to cut down our husbands. But that is not Godly behavior. The bible says a soft answer turns away raft. Use your power in a more productive way. Come before the Lord with thanksgiving and enter in his courts with praise. As you do you will sense your emotion odometer calming down. Next proceed with caution. It will be easy to set before the GOD of all and tell him the negatives about our mate, I admonish you to not go that route. First let him wash you. Tell him how you were minutes ago walking in anger and ready to unleash your fury. Be honest with him about where you are. Ask him to fix your heart. Give Him the opportunity to get the log out of your eye first then you will see clearly how to get the mote out of your hubby. in order for us to avoid car accidents we must follow the instructions of the crossing guard.  Jesus Christ. Can you recall a time you proceeded ahead ignoring your crossing guard? What were the results? What did you learn?

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Christmas can be one of those holidays where couples either sink or swim. My earnest desire is to sail through this season without any ripples in the water in other words swim. In order to do this I must change some of the habits of yesteryear. I choose to no longer do the same things while expecting a different results. In order to accomplish this task I must be deliberate in my actions. Choosing to no longer fly on auto pilot. So with the season swiftly approaching. Here's a list of things I am choosing to do different.

1. To tell my husband the things I desire for Christmas.
2. Stay focused on the families needs and not spend over the budget.
3. Continue to bring joy into the home.
4. Pray more.
5. Spend less time complaining. And more time being grateful.

 This is by know means an exhausted list. What are some of things that could make your Christmas more bright? While putting a smile on the face of your mate.

DeWanna  #fighting4marriage