Tips for Fighting 4 Your Marriage

1. Commitment to love

2. A dependency on the Word of GOD

3. Don't allow the romance to go dormant. Keep the fire burning

4. When your up against the wall remember, the weapons of your warfare are not carnal but mighty through GOD.

5. Put on the full armour of GOD.

6.Put up your dukes and Fight, the Good fight of Faith.

7. In the end. You Win

Cause the battle is not yours it's the Lords'  

Recall those days in elementary school when you passed the infamous love notes. Hoping they would never fall into the hands of your teacher, or in some cases the class big mouth. You only wanted it to land in the hands of the one who made your heart go pitter patter. Days when there was no doubt in your mind who you loved. It wasn't every boy in class. It was someone special. One you had your site set on for such a long time. Secretly you talked with him in the bathroom mirror. The club house in the woods became the place that you felt free enough to pretend that he was the Father of your make believe kids. When valentines day came around your parents took you to the store to purchase valentines gifts for all of your classmates, while in your heart you had only one in mind. When you came home unbeknowst to everyone you carefully opened the box looking for the best card that would let him know just how you felt. Patiently you waited for the day to pass out your cards so you could retrieve the ones given to you. On the bus ride home you were so antsy that you could hardly keep your cool. Awaiting the private moment to lock yourself in your room just so you could see if he had chosen a special card for you. Sadly to say twenty some years later you have a rude awakening, now you have kids of your own. And you realize all the cards in the box are the same. Lol. After all your efforts you made in the end it wasn't reciprocated.  He never even noticed the difference between your card and the rest of the classes he just wanted the candy. Okay maybe that was my experience. Smile, anyhoo.

Today as I look back over my life I now comprehend why some marriages stay together and some don't. As I started this blog, I shared how I had my sites set on someone special. Though they were others in the class not one had your heart like he did. At and early age you came to the decision that the only one  you wanted was him. In actuality you CHOSE to love him. It wasn't until years into my marriage that I took notice of this truth. In order for a marriage to work the two have to make a commitment in their heart and  mind to  choose to love. If you look around your neighborhood you will always say someone's lawn looks better than yours. But if you were to apply some of the same gardening tips to your flower beds you would be surprised how much your flowers would flourish. So instead of looking around at other yards that look better than yours. Begin to add some fertilizer (the word of GOD), plenty of water (Holy Spirit's guidance), make certain your marriage gets plenty of sunlight (Time spent in prayer asking GOD to teach you how to be a better mate in Jesus name) and if you need a boost add a little plant food not too much you don't want to overdue it (advice from seasoned marriages-wise counsel). Remember marriage is a process so give it plenty of tender loving care. Don't forget in many cases You (nobody forced you to marry) YOU choose your mate. Now when all the chips have fallen it's time for you to Choose to love. Til death do you part. 

Fighting 4 Marriage
DeWanna Whitted

Silly me, I have for the longest missed the memo. A while ago Father GOD gave me the tagline Fight 4 Marriage. For the life of me I couldn't figure out what he wanted me to do with it. After much prayer and a little guidance from my family (my oldest daughter) I got it. 
Starting today I will be working to completely change this website around to give you all that the Lord has placed inside me to assist you in Fighting 4 marriage. Some might wonder how or what makes me an expert in this area. Well the truth is that my most expensive teaching came through the college of Hard Knocks. I have been through major storms and that is the key I came through the storms .

1. Comprehending my role to cover my husband in Prayer

2. Commanding the storms of Sickness to leave (In sickness and in health)

3. Standing on the Word for GOD to bring us out of Debt (For richer or poorer)

4.. Accepting the truth that I don't have to have the last word. Learning to Be still and know that He is GOD

5. Allowing GOD to mold me and my husband as one. Letting go of selfish motives, thoughts and attitudes.

6. Taking hold of what it truly means to be a submisve wife and putting the lessons into action

7. Loving beyond the Outer Shell, and Loving the very core of my mate. (For better or worse)

8. Seeing beyond every obstacle My Marriage is worth Fighting 4.

9. And most of all I have a heart for marriage. And my biggest Desire is to see your marriage WORK. The way GOD intended.
10/ The greatest lesson. Was that what GOD had done for me I needed to do for YOU. By teaching you how to Fight 4 Marriage