One of the hardest concepts to master in marriage, the two becoming one. So often marriages stumble over this particular bump in the road. Through out life we are taught to be independent.

• as a baby were taught to hold our bottle.
• as a toddler to walk
• then to tie our own shoes

And the list goes on. Very rarely will you find a class that teaches two people how to become one. No wonder we fight to hold to our independence. As technology evolves, so has the thought become more prevalent many of us desire things to be about solely about us. It has rapidly become me and my, no wonder there is a influx of iPhone's steadily being purchased. It is evident we need to learn how to share.  We is a word that takes some effort to use when conversing in and about our marriage. We are more prone to say things like:

• my children
• my job
• my money
• my house
• my car
• my, my, my, my, my

When in truth as the two come together my  should no longer exist. Everything changes instantly. For me this has been a lesson I have to continually practice. I have learned the only way we can walk together is if we agree. It is difficult to agree if were both pulling in different directions.

DeWanna

It has been said that a three fold cord is not easily broken. I believe this with every core of my being. But that doesn't mean that the very endurance of that cord want be tried. Every obstacle that can will come to try the cord of your marriage.

The best way to guard against these test is to do some preventative maintenance.
Step 1:
Make certain your plugged into the right power source. Jesus Christ
Step 2:
The three fold cord is three separate cords bound together. You, Holy Spirit, and Your husband. With him in the center.
Step 3:
Let the word become the foundation buffer that keeps your relationship from over heating, burning out and shortages.
Step 4:
Don't get caught up tangled in other cords that are not going in the same direction as you.
Whatever you do stay plugged in to the Father, in Jesus Name.

DeWanna