March 2014

Two hearts becoming one is truly a beautiful thing. It takes two that have realized the fundamentals necessary within the bonds of marriage. They have counted up the cost and are ready to face the challenge. Though I must admit this process is not always easy. Many have ventured on this journey and enjoyed the fruit this has produced along the way. One of the first elements is the what the bible calls the dying of the flesh. Though both must crucify the flesh. Before this can work, each individual has to take a little time to take a good look at their own self. Your strengths, weakness, the good, the bad. Being truly honest with your self. Once you have taken a honest look at yourself then your ready to look at your spouse. You must be objective though. Do not look at him or her through a lens of perfection. Do not forget what you looked like. Neither parties involved are flawless. That's what makes this process intriguing. It is like a jig saw puzzle. The picture only comes together once you take the time to carefully see where they fit. Don't be in a rush, relax. Pay attention to every detail of the pictures on the pieces. Try hard to avoid trying to make a piece fit where it doesn't belong. Once you use these techniques.  In the end you will see the most amazing picture of Two Hearts that Have become ONE....Be blessed